Imagine how much abundance would flow into your life if you made an effort to make every deal, conversation, or meeting a Win-Win for all the people involved.  Wow, I can feel the energy changing already!

I know, your next question is “how” on earth does this get accomplished when we all have different agendas or desires regarding outcomes?  Here are some quick tips on how to Work Towards Win-Win.

1. Commit to bringing the attitude of Win-Win to each encounter

2. Believe there is a Win-Win solution available

3.  Ask the other “party” what would look and feel like a Win-Win

4. Wait for the conversation, or deal to feel like a Win-Win before you sign off, or say “yes”

I believe these above tips and action steps are all very doable, so I invite you to start out each interaction during your day with these tips in mind.  (This includes “interactions” with your kids and partners too!)

Some of you may be asking why we forget to Work Towards Win-Win so often in our lives?   I think it’s because there’s a lot of focus on “competition” and “winning” instead of Win-Win which is a very different energy and attitude.  I also think that fear and scarcity are all over the place, and we get into bad habits and adopt negative beliefs about what’s possible for us.

Once you realize how many benefits there are for you and others when you Work Towards Win-Win, it will be challenging for you to ever “forget” this approach. The results are truly inspiring, and I am blessed to have been taught this by so many teachers out there.

Are there excuses to not Work Towards Win-Win?  Sure… do you recognize these excuses?  I don’t have the time to focus on this… or… It’ll never work… or… I won’t get what I want in the end…

Imagine what the reaction would be from the universe if you were to Work Towards Win-Win all the time… yes, the abundance would flow into your life.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…

Our vibration matters!

Remember that the Universe hears your vibration not your words.  The principles of the Law of Attraction remind us that we will receive more of what we are “broadcasting” to the Universe when we are in alignment with it.  When the universe is able to receive a clear message from you (no energetic interference from your attitudes) then the Law of Attraction starts to work in your favor.  So when you are focused on Win-Win, you broadcast a very clear signal about your desires.

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,

you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration

by being inspired to

Work Towards Win-Win!



The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I don’t “believe” in Win-Win solutions, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I don’t think Win-Win will work for me, I deeply and completely accept all of me.”

“Even though I don’t think it’s possible/ practical to Work Towards Win-Win, I choose to love and forgive myself.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (If you are new to EFT please view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem*** 

Eyebrow: “I don’t think I believe in a Win-Win approach.”
Side of Eye: “I don’t think Win-Win will work out for me.”
Under Eye: “I might lose if I work towards Win-Win.”
Nose: “I don’t think Win-Win is really possible.”
Chin: “I feel skeptical about the Win-Win approach.”
Collarbone: “It’s not practical to Work Towards Win-Win.”
Under Arm: “I don’t know how to come from a Win-Win place.”
Head: “I’m not used to thinking this way, and I feel skeptical about it.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “I want to be willing to Work Towards Win-Win.”
Side of Eye: “I want to be open to Work Towards Win-Win.”
Under Eye: “I want to feel inspired to Work Towards Win-Win.”
Nose: “I want to want to have a Win-Win approach.”
Chin: “I’m starting to think it’s a good idea.
Collarbone: “I choose to feel inspired to have a Win-Win attitude.”
Under Arm: “I love feeling inspired to come from a Win-Win place.”
Head: “I choose to Work Towards Win-Win as often as possible.”


Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for teaching me how to Work Towards Win-Win… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel inspired to Work Towards Win-Win… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe for making it so easy for me to Work Towards Win-Win… I feel the vibrational shift and power already! 

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

June 19, 2013

Learn the #1 Mistake That Keeps People STUCK