I’m sure you think it’s odd that I am encouraging you to Make Some Mistakes, but think about it – how much have you learned from the mistakes you’ve already made? Haven’t you learned invaluable lessons from what you judged as “mistakes”?

I have learned so much from the mistakes I have made in the past, that I no longer even call them “mistakes” – that sounds too negative to me. I actually now love my mistakes… not something I ever thought I’d say out loud!  So yes, I am encouraging you to go ahead and Make Some Mistakes today… and see what happens.  Think of all the opportunities to learn, to change, to grow, and to expand.

So many people are afraid to even take a few small risks because they might trigger a “mistake.”  So they don’t try anything new.  They stay stuck in their lives without taking any opportunities for new growth. Trying something new can be so refreshing.  Trust me, I’m one of those people who hates change… I always have!  But I’ve learned to see change as an opportunity, and learned to love my mistakes because of the incredibly rich lessons I learned from them.

I am who I am today because of the awesome lessons I learned from behaviors I once called “mistakes.” I no longer see them as negative, foolish or bad. I see them as necessary, expansive, and brilliant as far as contributing to my emotional growth!  Yes, I’ve done a lot of tapping on my regrets, and what I used to call “mistakes” and it has all been worth it.

Here are some benefits or “upsides” of making mistakes:

1. At least you will have tried something new…

2. You will learn something good from the feedback you get.

3. You will learn something you didn’t know before, and maybe you can use this lesson in your future.

4. You will find new silver linings, new opportunities, and new “aha” moments that will be of benefit to you.

There are so many upsides to trying new behaviors, friendships or taking risks – small and large – in your life.  And when I talk about risks, I’m not talking about going skydiving… I’m talking about reaching out to new people, trying new behaviors, writing about new topics, teaching something new, parenting in a new way…

What I know is that when you take the edge off your fear about making mistakes, life seems easier, less threatening and more manageable. That’s what I continue to want, less fear in my life.

So, are you ready? I know it will be worth it for you to Make Some Mistakes!  You’ll notice the improvement in your vibration, the increase in your optimism and a higher level of creativity that shows up in all areas of your life.

What does this have to do with attracting abundance? When you are willing to Make Some Mistakes, you are automatically expanding what the universe will return to you energetically.  When you are willing to take risks that might lead to some mistakes and course corrections, you communicate to the universe that you are open to new ideas and new channels for abundance. Your vibration will immediately feel more alive and more abundant, and the results will be exciting!


Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…
Our vibration matters!


Remember that the Universe hears your vibration not your words.  The principles of the Law of Attraction remind us that we will receive more of what we are “broadcasting” to the Universe when we are in alignment with it.  When the universe is able to receive a clear message from you (no energetic or emotional interference) then theLaw of Attraction works in your favor.  So when you remember to Make Some Mistakes the universe will support you by showing you some positive benefits of your risks.

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.


When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.
Go ahead, raise your vibration
by being inspired to
Make Some Mistakes!




The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I’m afraid to make any more mistakes, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I’m afraid of the consequences of making mistakes, I deeply and completely accept my feelings.”

“Even though I don’t want to cause too much damage with my mistakes, I accept myself and my feelings anyway.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (If you are new to EFT please view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem*** 

Eyebrow: “I’m afraid to Make Some Mistakes in my life…”
Side of Eye: “I hate the mistakes I’ve already made…”
Under Eye: “I’d rather not make any more mistakes in my life…”
Nose: “I’m so afraid of the consequences of making more mistakes.”
Chin: “I don’t want to cause any more damage with my mistakes.”
Collarbone: “I’ve hurt others and myself with my past mistakes.”
Under Arm: “I’m afraid to take any more risks.”
Head: “What if I don’t want to make any more mistakes?”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “I want to believe that Making Some Mistakes is good.”
Side of Eye: “I’m trying to see the positive benefits of mistakes.”
Under Eye: “I want to feel inspired to take risks.”
Nose: “I’m looking forward to taking new risks…”
Chin: “I might even have fun.
Collarbone: “I love feeling good about all that I’ve learned.”
Under Arm: “I’m ready to feel confident about making mistakes.”
Head: “I choose to remember that making mistakes can be productive.”


Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for encouraging me to Make Some Mistakes… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel inspired to Make Some Mistakes… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe for making it so easy for me to Make Some Mistakes and learn from them… I feel the vibrational shift and power already! 

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life.

February 17, 2014

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