What I notice is that too many of my clients end up feeling as if choices have been made for them – by others, by peer pressure, or because they feel overwhelmed which blocks them from making decisions.  Someone told me this week that when a recent deadline approached for her to make a decision, she just “folded” and let someone else make the choice for her.

I want to encourage you to Make More Choices for yourself.  Why? Because being able to make your own choices is the essence of a happy life.  It’s energetically and emotionally invigorating, and it’s also fun.  And besides, it’s your life, so wouldn’t you enjoy making your own choices for how to live it?

The first thing you need to do is identify WHY you let so many other people or circumstances make choices for you.  How much of your reluctance to choose is ruled by fear of being clear? Fear of taking a stand? Fear of making a commitment?  See if any of these statements sound true for you… they are the most common reasons my clients have given up their responsibility to Make More Choices in their lives:

  • I’m afraid to be clear
  • I’m afraid to make a commitment
  • I’m afraid to feel trapped when I make choices
  • I just get too overwhelmed
  • It’s easier not to decide

The second step is to “heal” the parts of you that are not being proactive in your own life. You are entitled to take back your power and design your own life by making your own choices. Wouldn’t it be nice to be more in charge and in alignment with your schedule, your connections, your work boundaries etc.? Enter EFT Coaching… please see the tapping sequence below to help you do this.

When you are willing to Make More Choices in your life, the universe will “hear” that you are willing to take responsibility and make clear decisions.  The universe will help you by delivering opportunities that get you clear and in alignment with the life you want to live.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…
Our vibration matters!

When you are ready to Make More Choices, you will release the resistance in your energy field, and then more channels of abundance will open up to you.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.

Raise your vibration by being inspired to
Make More Choices!

Below you will find EFT/Tapping setup phrases to help you feel inspired to Make More Choices…

EFT Setup Phrases

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these setup phrases out loud, (or change the words to meet your situation). Then proceed to the additional phrases while tapping on the indicated points. (If you are new to EFT, please view directions.)

EFT Setup phrases for this topic are as follows:

Even though I’m afraid to be clear and committed, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.

Even though I’m afraid to be clear about my choices, (what if I make a mistake), I completely love and accept myself anyway.

Even though I get easily overwhelmed and let others make choices for me, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

I have indicated where to tap while repeating the phrases below. You may repeat the positive phrases more than once if you wish.

** Below are the phrases that focus on the challenge **

Eyebrow: I’m afraid to be clear and Make More Choices.
Side of Eye: I’m afraid to be clear and committed.
Under Eye: I get too overwhelmed to make choices.
Nose: I feel afraid to make too many commitments.
Chin: Making choices makes me feel trapped.
Collarbone: I’m getting tired of not making my own choices.
Under Arm: Clarity scares me, so I avoid it.
Head: I know I’m afraid to be clear and to choose.

** Here are positive phrases that focus on the solution **

Eyebrow: What if I could Make More Choices?
Side of Eye: I’m willing to clear my fear of being clear…
Under Eye: I want to choose to Make More Choices.
Nose: I feel more relaxed about being clear already.
Chin: What if I could Make More Choices for myself…
Collarbone: I appreciate the choices I’ve made in my life…
Under Arm: I am ready to get clear and Make More Choices.
Head: I am grateful for all the choices available to me.

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating these phrases below – while tapping or not…

Thank you, Universe, for reminding me to Make More Choices… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank you, Universe, for inspiring me to Make More Choices… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank you, Universe, for making it so easy for me to Make More Choices… I feel the vibrational shift and power already!

Enjoy these tapping sequences and Make More Choices for yourself! And I hope to see you at one of my upcoming workshops!

Carol Look, EFT Master, Author, Speaker, 
Coach, and Creator of The Yes Code

March 30, 2017

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