I love helping my coaching clients with one of the biggest reasons they don’t succeed today – they lead from their head and not from their heart. Too many of the decisions you are making today are coming from your head – you overthink each decision, and leave your heart out of the equation! I know all about this firsthand, having done it way too many times in my own life.

But if you could Lead From Your Heart when you’re deciding what to do next in business or in your personal life, then your decisions would be more connected to what you truly wanted, and you would be happier and more peaceful about them.

That’s what I want – to be happier and more peaceful, and I’ve found that when I Lead From My Heart, my decisions and steps forward have more integrity and are more aligned with my values. They just feel right, and this means they end up being right for me.

Sadly, it is harder than you think to Lead from Your Heart. We’ve all gotten away from this process. Many of us have been convinced that if we think about a decision long enough, and evaluate the outcomes and results, analyze the pros and the cons, we’ll eventually make the right choice.

So I’m inviting you to Lead From Your Heart… and notice how liberated you feel!

Step #1 – Learn the difference between how your decisions feel when they’re made from your analytical head and when they’re made from your emotional, energetic heart. This was a tough lesson for me, because I always felt so much more secure when I made decisions logically, writing out my list of pros and cons, making evaluations that were solid and airtight.

Step #2 – Once you know what it feels like to come from your heart on all your personal and professional decisions, then the next step is to take the risk to Lead From Your Heart – see what happens, watch how you feel, notice the results.

Step #3 – Practice, practice, practice!

You may feel some emotional hesitation or resistance as you read my suggestion to Lead From Your Heart because you are so accustomed to being “practical” and “logical.” I certainly had a lot of resistance, but the rewards have been outstanding – emotionally and energetically, in both my personal and professional life.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…

Our vibration matters!

Remember that the Universe hears your vibration not your words. The principles of the Law of Attraction are very clear: you will receive more of what you are “broadcasting” to the Universe when you are in alignment with it. When the Universe is able to receive a clear message from you (no energetic or emotional interference) then the Law of Attraction works in your favor. So when you are willing to Lead From Your Heart, the Universe will support you in new and surprising ways by opening up new channels of abundance.

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration, you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration by being inspired to Lead From Your Heart!



The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I don’t know how to Lead From My Heart, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I’m afraid to Lead From My Heart, I deeply and completely accept myself anyway.”

“Even though it feels too risky to Lead From My Heart, I choose to accept and appreciate how I feel.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (If you are new to EFT please view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem*** 

Eyebrow: “I don’t know how to Lead From My Heart.”

Side of Eye: “I never learned how to Lead From My Heart.”

Under Eye: “I’m too afraid to Lead From My Heart…”

Nose: “It feels so risky and I haven’t even done it yet.”

Chin: “It feels so unnatural, I don’t feel like me…”

Collarbone: “I’d rather make decisions the usual way, in my head.”

Under Arm: “I’m not sure I trust my heart yet…”

Head: “I’m so afraid of trying to Lead From My Heart.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “I want to learn how to Lead From My Heart.”

Side of Eye: “I think it’s worth it to Lead From My Heart.”

Under Eye: “But I’m still afraid to make a mistake…”

Nose: “I want to feel inspired to Lead From My Heart.”

Chin: “I choose to Lead From My Heart now.

Collarbone: “I want to feel inspired to Lead From My Heart.”

Under Arm: “I know it will be successful.”

Head: “I choose to Lead From My Heart in all my decisions.”


Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe, for reminding me to Lead From My Heart… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe, for allowing me to feel inspired to Lead From My Heart… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe, for making it so easy for me to Lead From My Heart… I feel the vibrational shift and power already! 

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life.

August 5, 2014

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