* If you weren’t afraid to fail, what risks would you take?

* If you weren’t afraid to fail, what new people would
you introduce yourself to today?

* If you weren’t afraid to fail, what ideas would
you share with others?

* If you weren’t afraid to fail, what would you
say to your loved ones?

Imagine how successful your life would be if you could Clear Your Fear of Failure. We lose so many opportunities when we’re afraid to fail, because the risk of failing outweighs the risk of losing these opportunities. If you’re afraid to fail, you live a smaller life, because smaller means less risk… less risk means fewer chances to fail in your own mind or in the eyes of others.  But just imagine how much abundance would flow into your life if you weren’t afraid to fail… 

Many of you have already thought about how your fear of failure blocks abundance… but changing still scares you.  And maybe you haven’t had the right tools to Clear Your Fear of Failure… until now.

Let’s start at the beginning. How do we get so afraid of failure that we won’t try anything new?  It takes time and training to learn how to be afraid of failing. In other words, we either learn the fear from someone in our family, we are taught that failing is terrible, (rather than just the world giving us feedback) or we have a negative experience and vow never to take a risk again…

I invite you to imagine a life without this fear… imagine a life with eagerness about looking forward to new ideas and new chances to succeed…

Imagine a life where trying something new
feels exciting and optimistic, rather than
dangerous or a recipe for failure.

That’s the problem – if you’re afraid to fail, then you won’t step out and try anything new, you’d rather play it safe and stay small.  And while you may lose incredible opportunities to expand and change by living this way, at least you won’t risk “failing” – whatever that means to you.

If you Clear Your Fear of Failure, you will be present in your daily life more, enjoy trying new ideas out on others, and engage in new activities that could yield great results in your personal and professional life.  Are you willing to try this clearing?  (I understand that clearing the fear seems risky too – as you may fear you might fail clearing the fear of failing!)  But it’s worth it… imagine a life without all this fear and worry about what each experience brings… what a relief.

We waste so much time trying to protect ourselves. When we are afraid of failing, we are forever avoiding conflicts, procrastinating, or making excuses as to why we “can’t” do something.  It’s not that you feel as if you are missing valuable opportunities, it’s that you don’t see them as valuable to begin with — you only see them as chances to fail instead of expand.

So my invitation in this newsletter is for you to Clear Your Fear of Failure and enjoy a life of peace and calm as well as excitement and adventure… Did I go too far? Ok, forget the adventure part but at least enjoy the relief from the chronic fear and enjoy that not everything that is presented to you is an opportunity for failure!

It may be easier to stay the way you are,
but it’s not going to give you a life of abundance.

When we make the decision to Clear the Fear of Failure, we are making the decision that we want more success. When we want more success, the Universe hears us, and offers us more to be joyful about. Living in chronic fear is exhausting, and clearing this fear will give you so much more energy as well as so many more choices and opportunities for abundance and happiness.

Remember that our thoughts are real
and carry energy…

Our vibration matters!

The most important lesson I have learned from Law of Attraction teachers is that the Universe hears our vibration not our words.  I also learned that we will receive more of what we are “broadcasting” to the Universe on an energetic basis.  If you start raising your vibration by feeling optimistic, joyful, appreciative and grateful, abundance is sure to follow.  When you Clear Your Fear of Failure, you will be offering a clear signal to the Universe that you want to attract abundance, even if it’s not instantaneous and the journey has a few curves in the road. When the Universe is able to receive a clear signal or message from you – (no energetic interference from your attitudes) then the Law of Attraction starts to work in your favor.

It’s your choice… Clear Your Fear of Failure
and enjoy the successes that start
to flow into your life! 

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration by choosing to
Clear Your Fear of Failure! 

1. EFT SETUP PHRASES:

The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I’m afraid to fail so I won’t even try, I deeply and completely accept myself anyway.”

“Even though it feels dangerous to try new things because I might fail, I accept who I am and how I feel.”

“Even though the risk of failing is too big so I’m not going to try anything new, I deeply and completely accept myself anyway.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (If you are new to EFT please view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem*** 

Eyebrow: “I’m so afraid to fail.”
Side of Eye: “I’ve failed too much already.”
Under Eye: “I don’t want to take a risk – I might fail.”
Nose: “I’m not sure how to take a risk without failing.”
Chin: “It feels stupid to take a risk.”
Collarbone: “I can’t afford to fail again…”
Under Arm: “I’m too afraid to even try… what if I fail?”
Head: “I’m afraid of what it will feel like if I fail yet again.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I started to take some tiny risks…and didn’t fail.”
Side of Eye: “Maybe I don’t have to be afraid of failing all the time.
Under Eye: “What if I succeed instead of failing?”
Nose: “What if I don’t have to look at change as failure…”
Chin: “I want to feel inspired to Clear My Fear of Failure.”
Collarbone: “I’m ready and willing to Clear My Fear of Failure.
Under Arm: “I choose to feel inspired to Clear My Fear of Failure.
Head: “I choose to Clear My Fear of Failure and enjoy new opportunities.

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for teaching me how to Clear My Fear of Failure… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel inspired to Clear My Fear of Failure… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe for making it so easy for me to Clear My Fear of Failure – I feel the vibrational shift and power already! 

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

An excellent way to continue becoming congruent with your desires is to read positive material about the power of combining EFT and the Law of Attraction.  Another way is to continue to tap every day to release your blocks to attracting abundance.  I invite you to review two of my favorite recent newsletters:

Make A Difference:

https://www.carollook.com/make-a-difference       

Simplify Your Life:

https://www.carollook.com/simplify-your-life  

Combine these messages with this week’s topic, Clear Your Fear of Failure and make a profound and positive shift in your daily attraction process!

March 28, 2012

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