What if having fun would allow and invite
what you want to attract into your life —

be fun at the same time?!

Seriously, have you had any fun lately? The vibration of having fun is very powerful.  I’ve noticed the unfortunate fact that many of us end up being way too serious most of the time — we work too hard trying to make the Law of Attraction move in our favor, and we lower our vibration when we are drained by the tensions in our lives.  As a result, we end up putting “having fun” on our To Do List, yet it never gets done.

Having fun is very useful and turns you in the right direction:

(1) Having fun distracts you from noticing that what you have been “asking for” hasn’t yet arrived!  This is very positive…

(2) Having fun keeps you uplifted and in the “now” vibration.

(3) Having fun raises your overall mood and vibration which communicates to the Universe that you want more delight in your life.

(4) Having fun is, well, a lot of fun! It’s joyful and exciting, and we could all use more of these feelings :-)

Remember, we don’t want to try to have fun in an attempt to attract abundance, or we put ourselves into an energetic position or “come from” of lack or scarcity.  I invite you to have fun because you enjoy having fun.

Plan on having fun for the sake of
having fun, and watch your energy
change for the better!

I always ask my workshop participants, what are the “yes, buts” to having fun in your life… The answers are almost always the same:

(1) Yes, but, I have forgotten how to have fun, and is it really worth it?

This idea that having fun isn’t “worth” it is a little disheartening to me, since so many people believe this or question the value of having fun.  When I have fun, enjoy myself and laugh out loud, there is no question that having fun is good for my body, mind and soul.

(2) Yes, but I don’t know how to have fun in a fun way… shouldn’t I be focused on the serious matters in my life?

Many people suffer with a constant worry that they’re not being serious enough, that having fun is frivolous or a waste of time in some way.

(3) Yes, but, I don’t have the time to have any fun.

This is a serious problem, and the minute I think I don’t have the time to have fun, that is my cue to start making time for fun!

(4) Yes, but, it’s hard to have fun when I don’t have what I want in my life yet…

Actually, having fun is fairly easy and takes less work than being serious… (and will only speed up the manifestations you are waiting for, even though that’s not what we are supposed to be focused on!)

(5) Yes, but… having fun is overrated.

Really?  Overrated?  This objection never comes from someone who has had fun recently enough to remember the sparkle, excitement and pure joy of having fun!

(6) Yes, but… I don’t deserve to have any fun.

When in doubt, this limiting belief surfaces for people who question their own worth.  If you have this limiting belief that you don’t deserve to have fun, ask yourself where you got this belief, why it feels valid to you, what makes others deserving of fun etc.  These are wonderful tappable issues!

And last but not least, a very frequent response is “What do you mean by fun — could you define that?”

Go ahead and define “fun” for yourself,
and then plan on it, look for it,
enjoy it and savor it!

There are no downsides to having fun — there are nothing but benefits — the least of which is that having fun will raise your vibration instantaneously, which of course communicates to the Universe that you are ready for more things that make you have fun!  Below is my benefit list to having fun:

(1) My mood is instantly lifted.

(2) I find that my creativity improves right away.

(3) I feel empowered and have more energy.

(4) I can feel myself raising my vibration, which I know is all I need to do to improve my life.

(5) My body feels lighter and better.

(6) I forget to be impatient :-)

(7) Having fun relieves my doubts about attracting abundance.

Is it so bad to put “having fun” on your To Do List? No, it’s just an indication of where you are vibrating energetically about this issue.  If you need to remember to assign “having fun” to yourself, you know you’ve lost some perspective about why we are living this life!  But it may be the only place you are able to start.

So go ahead and start by putting “having fun” on your daily list, especially if it has fallen off your list in the past few months or years.  This will get you started.  Then carve out time in each day to enjoy yourself — this may begin with something really small which is fine, as long as you begin this process.  Once you start to focus on having fun, and once you start to invite it back into your life, you will start to want it, crave it, choose it and protect time for having fun every day.

What if you don’t know what would help you feel as if you are having fun?  You could get a jumpstart by completing these sentences:

“I always have fun when I_____________”

“I had so much fun last time I __________”

“Some of my favorite memories of having fun are _________”

“I have fun when I talk to _________ and _________”

Then go choose something to do that feels fun, or call someone who knows how to have fun!

It’s that simple —
Make a decision to have fun, invite this
energy into your life, and then before
you know it, you will be having fun!

When you are willing to shake up your old energy patterns and replace them with new habits of having fun, you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

You will raise your vibration
as soon as you decide you deserve
to make time for fun in your life.

As all Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy!  So change your energy by being inspired to have fun!  It will surely invite the Universe to come to your side and help you create more abundance today.

Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy of the vibration you are putting out… so having fun now communicates to the Universe that you would appreciate even more fun and enjoyment in your life!

Below you will find EFT/ Meridian Tapping setup phrases to help you put having fun back into your daily life.

When you change your vibration,

you will change your life.


The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I have forgotten how to have fun, I choose to accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I don’t know how to have fun, I accept who I am.”

“Even though I don’t have enough time to have any fun, I accept myself and how I feel.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I don’t know how to have any fun.”
Side of Eye: “I’ve forgotten how to have fun.”
Under Eye: “I don’t have any time to have fun.”
Nose: “I have too much to do to make time for fun.”
Chin: “I used to have fun in the past.”
Collarbone: “How can I have fun when I’m waiting for what I want?”
Under Arm: “I think having fun is overrated.”
Head: “I want to want to have fun in my life.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I could enjoy having fun no matter what.”
Side of Eye: “I guess I could try and have some fun now.”
Under Eye: “Maybe I could start to have some fun.”
Nose: “Maybe it’s time to have fun in my life.”
Chin: “It might feel good to have fun right now.”
Collarbone: “I want to have fun no matter what.”
Under Arm: “I love knowing the Universe enjoys it when I have fun.”
Head: “I choose to have fun right now.”

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for helping me remember how to have fun in my life, even before my manifestations show up.

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to have fun no matter what I’m doing.

Thank You, Universe for bringing me the energy of fun in all my activities.

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

June 1, 2010

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