If you could get clear enough to Find Your Why
before you take your next step, I wonder how
much abundance would flow into your life…

So the question is WHY do you need to Find Your Why?

Because when you don’t know why you are acting, choosing or moving in one direction or another, there’s no passion, reason or purpose in your life!

Because when you don’t know your why, you aren’t being pulled towards your goals by your inspiration.  Instead, you’re running away from what you don’t want… never a good “come from.”

Because when you don’t know your why – you can’t be clear and centered and make the best decisions for your own life.

When you don’t know your why you often feel stuck, you procrastinate, you get cluttered in your mind, worse, you have a cluttered vibration!  When you have a cluttered vibration, the messages you send to the Universe are unclear… which gets in the way of the Universe sending you what you want!

If you truly want to get on the fast track
to attracting abundance in your life,
Find Your Why before you
take your next step.

Your Why is your inspired reason.  When you come from a place of inspiration, then you know you have Found Your Why. If you are taking action because it feels good, you have Found Your Why.  When you are crystal clear that the step you are about to take is right for you, you have Found Your Why.

Resistance is caused by confusion, listening too much to the opinions of others, or taking action before you feel lined up with the Law of Attraction.  When you Find Your Why, you release your resistance because you feel so inspired!  The sheer joy and ease you will feel by coming from your inspired Why is palpable.  And a more joyful and relaxed vibration immediately communicates a very receptive energy to the Universe.

Your vibration of abundance will
improve dramatically when you feel inspired to
Find Your Why.

How do you actually Find Your Why?  Check in with your gut – what are your emotions saying about your next decision?  What does your behavior say to you?  Is what you are about to do or choose a “yes” or a “no” for you?  Ask yourself this simple question, “Why am I about to do this?”

If you don’t know why, don’t feel good about the why,
or the “why” doesn’t inspire you, you’re not ready
to take the next step.

Remember that our thoughts are real and carry energy — our vibration matters! Yes, the Law of Attraction actually works, which means that when we know our Why, we are feeling inspired and abundant, and then the Law of Attraction will offer us more to feel good about! When you Find Your Why it will inspire the laws of the Universe to be on your side and help you get the results you want.

The energy of abundance is about appreciation, gratitude and ease, so whenever you are coming from your inspired Why you are exuding an exciting  vibration that will communicate to the Law of Attraction that you are ready to attract what you want and actually receive it.

This newsletter is yet another opportunity to clear
any of your conflicts about being outrageously
abundant in every part of your life.

Are you ready to do some clearing?  Answer the following questions about Finding Your Why. I have added the typical “yes, buts” that surface when I ask clients the following questions.

(1) What’s the “downside” to Finding Your Why?

Yes, but, I don’t have time to find my “why” – I need to make decisions right away!

Yes, but, they said it was the right thing to do, so I’m doing it too…

(2) What’s the “upside” to taking the steps you think you “should” be taking?

Yes, but, I don’t have the time to find out why I’m taking this next step.

Yes, but, it’s worked for them, why not for me?

These are powerful questions to help you uncover any resistance to Finding Your Why.  Once you know the upside of staying where you are or the downside of getting what you want you can tap on the emotional blocks and change your energy so that you become completely congruent with a successful life.

The good news is that you can treat
whichever “yes, buts” you have
with basic EFT tapping!

One way to continue becoming congruent with your desires is to read positive material about the power of combining EFT and the Law of Attraction.  Another way is to continue to tap every day to release your blocks to attracting abundance.  I invite you to review two of my favorite recent newsletters:

Energetic Invitations:


Sending Love:


Combine these messages with this week’s topic, Find Your Why and make a profound and positive shift in your daily attraction process!

Here’s what I know…

People who Find Their Why
improve their vibration — then they attract
more success and abundance!

In my newsletters, I like to include the benefits I have found to what I am proposing to my readers.  Below are my favorite benefits of learning how to Find Your Why:

(1) When you Find Your Why it will feel inspired and clear to you, which will speed up your attraction process!

(2) When you Find Your Why it will automatically raise your vibration so the Universe “notices” you are more in line with your desires… (Remember, the Law of Attraction “hears” your vibration, not your words.)

(3) When you Find Your Why you will instantly release the static, chatter and resistance that usually slows you down from getting what you want. You will continue to release your overall resistance to receiving what you have been asking the Universe to deliver.

As Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy. So change your energy by learning how to Find Your Why even if it feels uncomfortable to you at first!  This will automatically invite the Universe to help you create more abundance right now.

Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy and vibration you are putting out… so when you are feeling inspired and confident because you know how to Find Your Why, the Universe will bring you more opportunities that match this feeling on an energetic basis.

It’s your choice… Find Your Why
and enjoy the abundance that
flows into your life!

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your doubts to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration by
Finding Your Why
right now!


The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I don’t know my “why” yet, I accept who I am and how I feel.”

“Even though I don’t know why I need to Find My Why, I accept who I am and how I feel.”

“Even though I don’t really get the point of  Finding My Why, I choose to feel calm and peaceful.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I don’t know how to Find My Why.”
Side of Eye: “I’m afraid to Find My Why.”
Under Eye: “I don’t know how to figure this all out.”
Nose: “I have a conflict about Finding My Why.”
Chin: “I’m not sure why I should Find My Why.”
Collarbone: “I’ve never quite figured out my Why.”
Under Arm: “What if I don’t feel interested in Finding My Why?”
Head: “I have no idea how to Find My Why.

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I could attract abundance by Finding My Why?”
Side of Eye: “I want to want to Find My Why right now.
Under Eye: “I’m willing to feel inspired to Find My Why.”
Nose: “I intend to Find My Why right now.”
Chin: “I choose to Find My Why and enjoy it.”
Collarbone: “I’m ready to Find My Why!
Under Arm: “I appreciate how empowering it is to Find My Why!”
Head: “I choose to eliminate any resistance to Finding My Why.”

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank you Universe for helping me to Find My Why so easily – I can feel my vibration improving already!

Thank you Universe for inspiring me to Find My Why with such confidence and ease.

Thank you Universe for allowing me to Find My Why so I can attract the success and abundance I want in my life!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

January 25, 2011

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