What if we were completely congruent with our
goals and desires? I wonder how much
abundance would flow in…
Law of Attraction says that when we are in energetic resonance with our desires, or in complete congruence with them, what we want will show up for us. That’s a given… and it’s a very simple equation. So what’s the catch? Why do we have such trouble getting what we want in our lives?
The truth is that we are rarely in complete congruence with what we want. We always have reasons, fears, excuses, or “yes, buts” that get in our way of actually receiving what we say we want to have in our lives – from relationships, to health, to abundance.
This newsletter is yet another opportunity to clear any of our conflicts about being outrageously abundant in every part of our lives. Are you ready to do some clearing?
If we’re not “receiving” what we have been asking for, there are some energetic blocks to receiving… reasons or issues we have that block us from actually getting what we want. Sometimes these blocks can surprise us, other times they are obvious and have been with us for a very long time. To get you started on clearing the blocks, let’s be specific about what they might be.
First, think of what you really really want – the top item on your wish list – picture it, imagine it, feel as if you have it. Then answer the questions below about having it. When you have completed answering the questions for your number one item, repeat the process, applying it to the second thing that you want on your list – maybe exceptional health or something else. (I ask you to repeat the process for each important item on your list, as there may be different “downsides” to being successful in love than being successful at work or in your body.)
(1) What’s the “downside” to being completely congruent with what you want? (Think of people that might be jealous… friends who might treat you differently… reasons you may not feel comfortable reaching your goal…)
(2) What’s the “upside” to remaining ambivalent about what you want? (Consider what might be a positive aspect that comes with staying where you are, something good that might result from not changing or not getting what you have been asking for…)
(3) Are you more comfortable in the energy of “not having” or in lack? (Maybe you learned that not having was “good” or proper… maybe you are more comfortable in the energy of wanting and yearning…)
(4) How does it serve you to stay out of congruence with what you want? (Think about possible advantages to being out of complete congruence… there must be some or you would be in congruence right now!)
These are all powerful questions that I recommend you answer as best you are able… once you know the upside of not yet getting what you want, you can tap on the blocks and change your energy to enjoy congruence and success.
It’s your choice… Choose to
embrace complete congruence
and enjoy your vibration of abundance!
When we are in complete congruence with our desires, then it is only a matter of time before the abundance starts flowing into our lives. Let’s get energetically ready to have what we want by clearing out any emotional conflicts or old patterns that block our complete congruence with the reality of receiving what we want.
You may want to review some of my favorite recent newsletters, Fall in Love Todayand Energetic Invitations. Combine their messages with this week’s topic, Complete Congruence and make a profound shift in each day you get to experience in this lifetime.
Release your blocks to allowing complete
congruence with what you want and enjoy
your improved energy now!
Every possible reason you might have to not lining up and being in complete congruence with what you want is a “tappable issue” with EFT.  So what may be your blocks to being deeply, profoundly and completely congruent with your desires?
Here’s what I know… People who
are in complete congruence with what they want
attract more success and abundance!
So it’s time for the yes, but section of my newsletter to help identify what we need to clear out of our energy systems with EFT. Here are some typical yes, buts that surface when I ask workshop participants to consider what it would be like to be in complete congruence with their desires:
(1) Yes, but…Â Most of me wants that goal, isn’t that enough?
No, actually it’s not enough if you want to reach your goal. If there are still some parts of you that are ambivalent or don’t want what you say you want, it will ultimately block your progress. “Even though a part of me doesn’t want what I want…”
(2) Yes, but… I didn’t know I wasn’t “completely” congruent… how would I know this and does it still interfere with my reaching my goals?
(This is an interesting fact that oftentimes we are unaware of not being congruent…) You would know that you aren’t lined up with what you want by looking at your life — are you getting the abundance you want? The relationships? The opportunities? If not, it’s a clue that you may have some emotional conflicts that are blocking you from being in complete congruence. As I wrote before, not being completely congruent does interfere with reaching your goals.  “Even though I didn’t know I wasn’t entirely congruent…”
(3) Yes, but… I don’t feel safe when I think of reaching all these goals… I’d rather move slowly towards them!
Why don’t you feel safe when you think of reaching your goals? How does it help you to move slowly towards your goals? What are you protecting? “Even though I don’t feel safe reaching all my goals…”
(4) Yes, but… I’m afraid my life would change too much if I reached all my goals in my life.
It takes so little time to turn these conflicts around. I know this process will raise your vibration and make you feel empowered by tapping to clear your energy. “Even though I’m afraid to change too much…
The good news is that you can treat whichever yes, buts you have with basic EFT tapping! Are you holding yourself back in your life because of any of these yes, buts or layers of resistance? If so, the yes, buts can all be formed into tappable issues with EFT/Meridian Tapping.
In my newsletters, I like to include the benefits I have found to what I am proposing to my readers. Below are my favorite benefits of being in complete congruence with your desires…
(1) Being in complete congruence with your desires will give you more energy as it will reduce resistance in all areas of your life. Yes, you will naturally have more energy… just taking the stance that you want to be in complete congruence will reduce the exhausting resistance you fight with in your life.
(2)Â Being in complete congruence with your goals and desires will instantly raise your vibration and help you enjoy every day as you move towards receiving your goals. Remember, the Law of Attraction “hears” your vibration, not your words, so imagine what it will “hear” when you are in complete congruence, no stops, with what you want!
(3)Â Being in complete congruence with what you want will reveal new opportunities and solutions to you – you will have access to new information that will help you get what you want. Congruence is an energy pattern, so once you feel congruent and lined up with your desires, you can start to experience more situations as opportunities and see more solutions in front of you.
(4) Being in complete congruence with what you want is just simple – no more complications, no more ambivalence to drag you down. And it will communicate to the Universe that you are open to new channels through which abundance can flow. When we are open to a variety of channels through which we receive abundance, the Universe presents us with these new channels!
As Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy. So change your energy by being inspired to being in complete congruence with your desires! It will automatically invite the Universe to help you create more abundance right now.
Raise your vibration by choosing
to be completely congruent
with your goals and desires!
Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy of the vibration you are putting out… so when you are feeling completely congruent with what you want, the Universe will bring you more avenues for abundance.
Below you will find EFT/ Meridian Tapping setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks and be in complete congruence with your desires.
When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.
Go ahead, raise your vibration by
enjoying being congruent with your goals!
1. EFT SETUP PHRASES:
The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:
While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).
“Even though I’m not completely congruent with what I want, I accept who I am and how I feel.”
“Even though there are parts of me that want what I want, I accept all of me anyway, including the other parts!”
“Even though I’m afraid to be totally congruent because then I’ll change too much, I accept who I am anyway.”
I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)
***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***
Eyebrow: “I’m afraid of being completely congruent with my desires.”
Side of Eye: “I don’t know how to be in complete congruence.”
Under Eye: “I don’t feel safe being in complete congruence with my desires.”
Nose: “I don’t feel totally safe when I think of what I want!”
Chin: “Parts of me want what I want, other parts are afraid.”
Collarbone: “I’m afraid of what could change.”
Under Arm: “Do I really want what I’ve been saying I want?”
Head: “I guess the truth is I’m afraid of getting what I want.”
***Now for the positive focus on the solution***
Eyebrow: “What if I could become completely congruent with my desires?”
Side of Eye: “I know I can reduce my fears and enjoy what I want.”
Under Eye: “I want to want what I want!”
Nose: “I intend to be open to complete congruence with my desires.”
Chin: “I choose to be congruent with my desires.”
Collarbone: “I’m ready to be completely congruent with my desires.”
Under Arm: “I appreciate the energy of congruence in my life.”
Head: “I love feeling lighter as I become more congruent with my desires.”
Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):
Thank You, Universe for showing me how to be completely congruent with the desires in my life.
Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel safe when I become completely congruent with the desires in my life.
Thank You, Universe for inspiring me to enjoy the energy of complete congruence with the goals and desires in my life.
Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!
