Doesn’t that sound empowering to actually
*choose* a new ending for all the stories
we keep telling about our lives?

What if we could actually choose new endings for every day, every scenario, every outcome we think about…

What if we could alter the outcomes in our lives by choosing new endings…

What if we could attract more abundance by accessing new energetic endings to what’s happening in our lives…

So in our professional lives, instead of telling the same old story (“it never works for me, someone else always gets promoted, my work is never recognized…”) we could actually choose a new ending and tell the story about our professional life with new energy and expectations… It might sound like this:

It was so gratifying to have my work recognized, I love that feeling!
I’m so happy now that I’m being chosen for wonderful projects.
It feels so good to be sought after in my field…

And with relationships, instead of singing the same song that says “I never find the right one… all the good ones are taken… I’m too old, too young, too big, too small to be chosen…” we could choose a new ending for this story:

It has been so much fun to meet so many potential partners.
I am anticipating an abundance of potential partners available to me!
I feel so hopeful, I wouldn’t be surprised if I met someone tomorrow!

And with our health, we could stop assuming and expecting that we will get ill or have the usual aches and pains and start choosing new endings for our bodies and enjoy strength and well being.  These new endings might sound like this:

I love my strong and healthy body…
I’m so grateful my body’s wisdom informs me of what I need.
It’s so nice to know I have a healthy body and keep making it healthier.

The important question is,

Why aren’t you already choosing
new endings for the stories in your life?

It never occurred to me that I could use imagination, hope, and optimism to actually empower myself by “choosing” new endings to each and every scenario in my life.  So I was just innocently ignorant — I didn’t know that this was an option until I started studying the Law of Attraction materials.  Then I had to do some tapping on my resistance (my yes, buts) to choosing new endings, and my fears that it still wouldn’t work out, but I soon became more creative and eager for the best possible outcomes.

What’s blocking you to choosing new endings to your typical storylines?

What’s the “downside” to choosing a new ending?
Does it feel “safe” to imagine a different outcome?
Are you more comfortable staying the way you are?
Are you afraid to try someting new?

Start imagining new endings and new outcomes in your life:

I can’t wait for the next relationship to work out well for me…
I look forward to meeting someone with so many of the characteristics that have been on my wish list.
I love knowing the perfect mate is right around the corner!
I can’t wait for the next project at work because I know my talents will really shine…
I look forward to hitting it “out of the park” in the next business meeting…
I love feeling stronger in my body…
I love knowing my body has what it takes to be healthy and thriving!

It’s your choice…

Choose a new ending to your typical story
and watch the Universe chip in!

Below are some of the benefits of choosing a new ending to your stories:

(1) Choosing new endings invites you to be really creative.

It makes you picture new endings and rewrite what you’ve always told as your story… be a screenwriter for a day!

(2) Choosing new endings helps you focus on what you truly do want rather than what you don’t want.

This exercise really helps you focus on what you do want, because choosing a new ending directs you towards an ending that would be better, more enjoyable, more pleasing to you than what you usually anticipate.

(3) Choosing new endings brings you immediate emotional relief.

Just getting a break from the old, tired endings you usually tell is a relief, and relief feels good in your body and your mind!

(4) Choosing new endings raises your vibration right now.

When we choose new endings that are positive and uplifting, our vibration is raised and the Universe hears our true desires, not the old stories we expect to happen.

Act as if your “new” endings are probable…
Look forward to the time when they come true,
And watch your vibration improve!

I always ask my workshop participants what the “yes, buts” are to choosing new endings… Typical answers (which of course become tappable issues with EFT/Meridian Tapping) include:

(1) Yes, but it seems like a waste of time…

When we want to improve or change our lives, it does take a small investment of time and effort.  But you’re worth it!  Set aside the time and create new endings to the old stories you keep telling.  Or tap for this resistance…

(2) Yes, but I don’t feel safe with anything other than what I know.

I know, it’s more familiar to stay with the standard routine, but what an opportunity to practice having new and exciting experiences! This is a tappable issue of course…

(3) Yes, but, I’ll only be disappointed when the new endings don’t come true.

The purpose of choosing new endings is to change your energy, and when your energy changes, your signals to the Universe change, and then you can have new endings in your life.  Stay focused on the improvements in your energy first, the real changes will manifest in time.

(4) Yes, but, I might as well face the truth of what usually happens for me.

We keep making the “truth” happen over and over again based on our expectations, our energy and our beliefs.  Start choosing new endings and start believing they will come true, and your “truth” will change!

Raise your vibration
by choosing new endings and
watch the Universe join your efforts to succeed.

As all Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy!  So change your energy by being inspired to choose new endings in all areas of your life.  It will surely invite the Universe to come to your side and help you create more abundance today.

Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy of the vibration you are putting out… so act as if you are enjoying the new endings, and the Universe will bring you the experiences you are choosing!

Below you will find EFT/ Meridian Tapping setup phrases to help you eliminate the blocks to choosing new endings.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.


The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though my story endings are always the same, I accept who I am anyway.”
“Even though I don’t know how to be different, I accept who I am right now.”
“Even though I don’t feel very inspired to try and choose anything new, I accept all of me.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “It always ends up the same for me.”
Side of Eye: “Nothing really changes for me.”
Under Eye: “Why bother with trying something new?”
Nose: “Nothing ever changes for me.”
Chin: “It’s always the same for me.”
Collarbone: “I don’t know how to create a new ending.”
Under Arm: “I think it’s easier to stay the same.”
Head: “I’d rather not try than be disappointed with the results.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I could make more choices for my life?”
Side of Eye: “Maybe I could make an effort to change the endings.”
Under Eye: “Maybe I should try to choose new endings.”
Nose: “I wonder what would happen if I chose new endings…”
Chin: “I wonder what new endings would work for my stories?”
Collarbone: “Maybe it would be fun to try something new.”
Under Arm: “Maybe I could consider choosing a new ending.”
Head: “I choose to consider new endings for all my stories.”

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for helping me choose brilliant new endings for my stories.

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to access some creative new endings for chapters in my life.

Thank You, Universe for bringing me the new endings I am dreaming about!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

June 15, 2010

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