What if you had permission to
Borrow My Optimism?

I wonder how much abundance
would flow into your life…

Have you ever called your neighbor or a friend to borrow a a cup of sugar or a book? Your friend has something you need and you borrow it temporarily because you don’t have it yourself. Why not Borrow My Optimism until your optimism gets cranked up to the level you want?

I’m totally willing to loan you some optimism, not because I have so much that it’s spilling over, but because I know there’s plenty of it, and if I loan you some, the good news is it won’t reduce the amount I have! And the best news is, you never have to give it back…

Why am I so eager to loan you something I have? Because I am confident if I had borrowed other people’s optimism when I was going through some dark times, I might have come out of it sooner. Because lending you some of my optimism won’t deplete any of my own optimism. Because I love helping people and I believe that passing on this energy is a creative way of helping. I also encourage you to do the tapping sequences in this newsletter, but go ahead and Borrow My Optimism even before you tap!

When you Borrow My Optimism it will be easier for you to turn around your vibration and have your thoughts and focus pointed in the right direction. It’s as if I am offering you a way to get some traction, or a leg up in the “mood” department.

What I know from my personal experience is that when I’m in a bad mood or feeling down and pessimistic, trying to use Law of Attraction is not only ineffective, sometimes it feels as if it backfires! Being reluctant to ask for help hasn’t been an effective way of being for me either. But I’ve changed over the years, and now I don’t push myself to do something unless I’m in the right energetic space. Remember last week’s newsletter about your “Energetic Come From”? If you Borrow My Optimism, you will improve your energetic “come from.”

If you are feeling pessimistic, down or disgruntled, the effort you make towards attracting abundance isn’t worth that much. The Universe can “feel” your mood and your energy, so if you’re coming from a pessimistic place, you won’t be matching the energy of attracting abundance.

Remember that our emotional energy in our lives is critical – just having the intention to Borrow My Optimism is worthwhile because it means you are feeling hopeful enough to use me as a backup. We all need a backup at times… This intention to Borrow My Optimism until yours builds will immediately lead to a more relaxed energy, and as always, it will allow you to create new ideas and refreshing ways to look at what you do in your personal and professional life.

So I invite you to Borrow My Optimism until yours comes back online. You’ll love releasing the pressure, enjoy that you don’ have to work so hard for what you want, and it may inspire you to lend your own optimism to someone else who may be in need one day.

Your vibration of abundance would
improve dramatically if you were willing to
ask for help and Borrow My Optimism…

Do you need a reason to feel inspired to Borrow My Optimism? Here are several – if you Borrow My Optimism, it will reduce your resistance immediately, put you in a place of relief, allow you to feel peace, encourage you to slow down, and help you align with what you want. This energetic congruence will help you attract what you want into your life even faster than you could imagine.

Remember that our thoughts are real
and carry energy…
Our vibration matters!

When we raise our vibration by focusing on something joyful, the Law of Attraction will offer us more to feel good about, which raises our vibration again and attracts even more abundance – it’s a continuing cycle! But when we are focused on something negative, we stay in resistance to abundance. If you are honestly feeling pessimistic, stop fighting it. Just Borrow My Optimism until you can get back on track. Remember, even releasing a little bit of resistance means you will automatically become more congruent with the desires you have been asking for from Law of Attraction and these desires will now have the space to show up in your life.

This newsletter is yet another opportunity to clear
any of your conflicts about being outrageously
abundant in every part of your life.

If you think there are any negative consequences to my invitation to Borrow My Optimism, please use EFT on the answers to the “yes, but” questions I usually ask:

“What’s the ‘downside’ to Borrowing My Optimism?”

“What is the ‘upside’ of staying where you are?”

“How does it serve you to avoid asking for help from others?”

Once you know the upside of staying where you are or the downside of getting what you want, you can treat these “yes, buts” with simple EFT sequences, change your energy, and become completely congruent with a successful life.

Here’s what I know…
People who Borrow Optimism
improve their vibration — then they attract
more success and abundance!

In my newsletters, I like to include the benefits I have found to what I am proposing to you, my readers. Below are my favorite benefits to being open to and inspired to Borrow My Optimism:

(1) When you are willing to Borrow My Optimism you will raise your vibration immediately. (Remember, the Law of Attraction “hears” the vibration of everything you are emitting energetically.)

(2) When you eliminate your blocks to Borrow My Optimism, you will feel immediate relief and release the struggle around attracting abundance. Again, you will feel as if you have unlocked yet another key to abundance.

(3) When you Borrow My Optimism, your overall energy will be higher, your vibration will be more unified around attracting abundance, and you will release any energetic resistance you’ve been carrying about attracting abundance.

As Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy. The Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy and vibration you are putting out… so when you are feeling hopeful and relieved because you felt inspired to Borrow My Optimism, the Universe will bring you more opportunities that match this good feeling on an energetic basis.

It’s your choice… Borrow My Optimism
and enjoy the abundance that flows
into your life!

Below you will find EFT setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your doubts to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.
Go ahead, raise your vibration by choosing
to Borrow My Optimism…


The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I didn’t realize how pessimistic I was feeling, I choose to accept who I am and how I feel.”

“Even though I’m reluctant to ask for help and Borrow Optimism, I accept who I am and how I feel right now.”

“Even though it feels safer to stick with my own mood, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (If you are new to EFT please view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I feel reluctant to Borrow Optimism.”
Side of Eye: “I’m not very good at asking for help.”
Under Eye: “If I Borrow Optimism, don’t I have to give it back?”
Nose: “What if I Borrow Optimism and nothing changes?”
Chin: “I don’t want to feel indebted to anyone… “
Collarbone: “What’s the point of my asking for help?”
Under Arm: “What if I don’t want to Borrow Optimism?”
Head: “I don’t want to borrow anything from anyone!”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “Maybe I could raise my vibration by Borrowing Optimism.”
Side of Eye: “Maybe it’s ok to ask for help sometimes.”
Under Eye: “I could be more relaxed while I’m waiting to feel better.”
Nose: “I intend to Borrow Optimism and see what happens.”
Chin: “I choose to release my need to pretend I don’t need help.”
Collarbone: “I’m ready and willing to Borrow Optimism when I need it.”
Under Arm: “I appreciate my willingness to ask for help”
Head: “I choose to release my resistance to Borrow Optimism.

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for showing me how to feel good about my intention to Borrow Optimism – I feel more aligned already!

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel safe and secure as I Borrow Optimism, I am looking forward to exciting results!

Thank You, Universe for inspiring me to Borrow Optimism, I feel the vibrational shift and power already!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

A powerful way to continue becoming congruent with your desires is to read positive material about the power of combining EFT and the Law of Attraction. Another way is to continue to tap every day to release your blocks to attracting abundance. I invite you to review two of my favorite recent newsletters:

One Now at a Time:


Sending Love:


Combine these messages with this week’s topic, Borrow My Optimism and make a profound and positive shift in your daily attraction process!

May 10, 2011

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