Those of you who have been following me for some time now understand how much I care about congruence. From my personal and professional experience, congruence is essential in order to get what you want. Most people say out loud that yes, they want success. You’ve probably said it many times yourself. But if you’re not congruent with feeling and being successful, you can’t attract it into your life… No two ways about it.

So what does it mean to Be Congruent with Success? It means that when you think of success, you have no trouble knowing you deserve it. When you think of success, you feel comfortable picturing yourself having what you want. When you think of success, you know in your bones that you will have it… and soon! There’s no guilt, no resentment of others, no fear of “their” reactions, and no fear of getting into trouble when you become more successful than others.

You may not realize that you have been lacking congruence. All it takes is one or two fears, or one or two limiting thoughts or beliefs, and you will not Be Congruent with Success. See if you can answer these questions below in order to narrow down your tapping targets.

  • Why are you afraid of success?
  • Do you have any ambivalence about being successful?
  • What is the “upside” to staying the way you are?
  • Do you really believe you deserve success?
  • Are you afraid to be too visible when you’re successful?

If any of these feelings or fears are present, you will communicate ambivalence about your message to the universe regarding the success you want to attract into your life. It won’t take much tapping to neutralize these fears or feelings… and when you release these blocks, you will be on your way to attracting the experiences and opportunities that will bring you success.

You can tap on the feelings, fears, beliefs or thoughts that make you feel uncomfortable about attracting success. You can tap on your fears of what will happen when you have success, what “they” might say when you have more than they have… all my newsletters address this topic.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…

Our vibration matters!

When you are ready to Be Congruent with Success you will enjoy watching abundance start showing up for you. When you are moving your energy, releasing your feelings, and eliminating your limiting beliefs, the Universe will support you in new and surprising ways by opening up new channels of abundance.

Below you will find EFT/Tapping setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration
by being inspired to
Be Congruent with Success!



While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these first phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation). Then proceed to the additional phrases while tapping on the indicated points. (If you are new to EFT, please view information and directions.)

The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

“Even though I have mixed feelings about being successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I’m afraid to be successful, I deeply love and accept myself.”

“Even though I can’t stay invisible if I’m successful, I accept and appreciate all my feelings anyway.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish.

***Below are the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I have mixed feelings about success.”

Side of Eye: “I’m not sure I want success in my life.”

Under Eye: “I’m afraid of what might change…”

Nose: “I don’t want to stand out either.”

Chin: “I don’t want to be visible if I’m successful.”

Collarbone: “I’m afraid to be successful, they might get upset.”

Under Arm: “I have such mixed feelings about success.”

Head: “Clearly I’m not congruent with success.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “I really want to Be Congruent with Success.”

Side of Eye: “I want to want success in my life.”

Under Eye: “I want to want to Be Congruent with Success.”

Nose: “I choose to start being more congruent with success.”

Chin: “I want to feel inspired to attract success into my life.

Collarbone: “I feel inspired to Be Congruent with Success.”

Under Arm: “I’m feeling better already!”

Head: “I choose to Be Congruent with Success now!


Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe, for reminding me to Be Congruent with Success… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe, for inspiring me to Be Congruent with Success… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe, for making it so easy for me to Be Congruent with Success… I feel the vibrational shift and power already!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life.

And whether you are new to my abundance newsletters or not, please check out past issues to continue with your journey of success and abundance!


Carol Look, EFT Master, Speaker, Author, Coach, and Creator of “The Yes Code.”

October 27, 2015

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