Impossible, you say? I know, I know, it’s really hard to do! But here’s the critical fact – we don’t have any choice but to Allow Life to Unfold. It’s going to unfold whether we like it or not!

If you could learn to Allow Life to Unfold instead of resisting it – you’ll be calmer, happier, and develop some really good habits and be able to roll with the punches. No one lives a life without twists and turns. And we all experience loss, growth, surprises, traumas, and challenges. Wouldn’t it be nice if we didn’t make it even harder than it is…

I didn’t say it was easy, I just know it’s a better idea to Allow Life to Unfold than to resist change. I’ve done it both ways. I know which one works.

So what might be your blocks that get in the way of being able to Allow Life to Unfold? Do any of these sound familiar?

  • I want life to go my way.
  • I’m afraid of allowing life to unfold; I’d rather direct life.
  • I don’t want to know I don’t have total control.

These “reasons” for not Allowing Life to Unfold can of course all be folded into great targets for tapping sequences.

What this means is simply letting life take you on the twists and turns of its journey, rather than trying to direct every move.

Notice more, react less, be with your feelings, and take the next step!

What this does not mean is avoiding your feelings, ignoring your thoughts, or pretending you don’t have blocks to this invitation that can be helped with EFT.

When you Allow Life to Unfold, the universe “hears” that you trust the direction it’s going, and that you trust that you have what it takes to handle any curveballs. Everyone gets thrown curveballs. You will communicate the message to the universe that you have strengths, and intend to keep up the good work when you Allow Life to Unfold.

Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors carry energy…

Our vibration matters!

When you are ready to Allow Life to Unfold you will notice how much abundance starts showing up for you. When you are relaxing into life, rather than resisting it, the universe will support you in new and surprising ways by opening up new channels of abundance.

Below you will find EFT/Tapping setup phrases to help you be inspired to release your blocks to being able to attract what you want into your life.

When you change your vibration,
you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration
by being inspired to
Allow Life to Unfold!



While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these first phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation). Then proceed to the additional phrases while tapping on the indicated points. (If you are new to EFT, please view information and directions.)

The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

“Even though I feel uneasy about allowing life to unfold, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.”

“Even though I’m afraid to let go of the control I think I have, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”

“Even though I’m afraid to let go of anything…, I accept and appreciate all my feelings anyway.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish.

***Below are the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I’m afraid to let life unfold.”

Side of Eye: “I’m not sure I want to relinquish control.”

Under Eye: “I want to be in charge.”

Nose: “I don’t like a lot of what unfolds.”

Chin: “Life can be hard, and I don’ want to let go.”

Collarbone: “I’m afraid to let go of control.”

Under Arm: “What if I don’t like what life has to offer?”

Head: “I’m not sure how to be so easy about it…”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “I really hate letting go…”

Side of Eye: “I want to direct life sometimes.”

Under Eye: “I’m considering allowing life to unfold…”

Nose: “I choose to be interested in the unfolding process.”

Chin: “I want to feel inspired to Allow Life to Unfold.

Collarbone: “I feel more relaxed about it already.”

Under Arm: “I’m feeling better about it already.”

Head: “I choose to Allow Life to Unfold.”


Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe, for reminding me to Allow Life to Unfold… I feel more aligned with abundance already!

Thank You, Universe, for inspiring me to Allow Life to Unfold… I am looking forward to uplifting results!

Thank You, Universe, for making it so easy for me to Allow Life to Unfold… I feel the vibrational shift and power already!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life.

And whether you are new to my abundance newsletters or not, please check out past issues to continue with your journey of success and abundance!


Carol Look, EFT Master, Speaker, Author, Coach, and Creator of “The Yes Code.”

December 3, 2015

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